In 2014, just one month before my 37th birthday, my life changed in an instant. During my annual physical, some abnormal bloodwork led to a non‑routine colonoscopy. I didn’t think much of it at the time — but that test revealed Stage III rectal cancer.
I began a journey filled with various procedures, treatments, and emotions I never expected to face. Multiple rounds of chemotherapy, radiation, and surgery for permanent colostomy – a new way of living.
The physical part was tough, but the emotional part was its own battle. It was a challenge to be open about my journey – not just the highlights or the victories, but the fear, the setbacks, and the raw moments in between. Sharing the reality of rectal cancer and finding humor helped me stay grounded, and it helped others feel less alone in their own struggles.
Over the past decade, I had my share of scares, unusual symptoms, tests, and the fear of that three-year colonoscopy. Anyone who has lived through cancer knows the worry doesn’t simply disappear.
Through it all, staying positive, having a solid support system, and the right medical team are key. Listen to your body. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t ignore it. Don’t wait. Make the appointment. Ask every question. Advocate fiercely for yourself.
Today, I am grateful to share that I am entering my twelfth year of complete remission.
If there’s one message, I hope you carry with you, it’s this: get your colonoscopy.
It is not so bad. The worst part is getting over the social stigma. Yes, the prep can be unpleasant and uncomfortable. Yes, you may feel embarrassed, awkward, or exposed but that is not a reason to avoid getting one. They can save your life!